33关于爱的真实事实

当您停止思考爱情时，您很可能想象情侣拥抱，牵手或只是一起走入夕阳。实际上，您可能会想象自己爱上了您梦special以求的那个特殊的人。您甚至可以列出理想伴侣中想要的东西。有趣的是，在“坠入爱河”期间发生了许多生物学因素。在当今时代，爱情变得过于浪漫。因此，您很可能不了解关于爱的这些科学/真实事实。

人际关系事实坠入爱河可能会令人兴奋。天空更蓝。颜色看起来更明亮。障碍物消失了。由于有了新发现的爱，整个世界似乎变得更加美丽。尽管所有这些都是对的，但也确实有一些感觉是由于大脑中释放的化学物质而发生的。尽管《关于爱情的科学事实》不是很浪漫，但实际上却很有趣。让我们看一下关于爱的鲜为人知的事实，这些事实证明爱不亚于超级。

33会让你惊奇的爱情事实

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1.爱促进长寿

爱情和婚姻会带来更长的寿命。根据 《婚姻与家庭杂志》上 发表的一项研究，与未婚者相比，已婚者在8年内死亡的可能性要低58％（1）。

2.爱与欲望影响大脑的不同区域

一夜情的立场不会自动导致童话般的浪漫。研究表明，恋爱会激活大脑中与移情有关的区域（2）。但是，欲望与大脑的不同区域相连-主要是与动机和奖励有关的区域。

3.红玫瑰是爱的正式花

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您是否曾经想过为什么玫瑰是情侣们选择的花朵？那是因为玫瑰被认为是罗马爱神维纳斯的最爱。

4.爱情真的会让你做疯狂的事情

就像做场景，逃离监狱去见你所爱的人，或者只是表现得愚蠢。您知道亚利桑那州的囚徒约瑟夫·安德鲁·德肯尼普（Joseph Andrew Dekenipp）怎么了吗？他逃出监狱只是为了和他的女朋友见面。

5.世界上最长的婚姻是86年

6.爱使您更善解人意，并能情绪激动

当您找到一个使自己努力成为自己最好的人时，您的大脑也会做出相应的反应。根据科学杂志《 认知，情感与行为神经 科学》上发表的一项研究 ， 幸福的关系带来的社会联系激活了大脑中负责情绪处理和无私的部分（3）。

7.爱分阶段发展

任何曾经经历过爱的人都知道爱会逐步发展。强度逐渐增加。它以痴迷开始，逐渐成为一种更加成熟和理解的爱。

8.爱可以降低血压

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那些患有高血压（也称为高血压）的人知道其与从中风到心脏病的所有疾病都有关联。幸运的是，根据 《行为医学年鉴》上 发表的一项研究，幸福的结婚可以导致血压降低（4）。去亲吻你的伴侣，让你保持健康！

9.爱可以帮助您更快康复

在受伤或生病时陪伴丈夫并不仅仅是获得情感上的支持。当伴侣之间有着密切的纽带时，与彼此处于公开攻击性关系中的伴侣相比，伤口的愈合速度更快。

10.男人比女人快坠入爱河

发表在 《社会心理学杂志》上的 一项研究指出，男人坠入爱河时迈出了第一步（5）。他们大多是在恋爱中首先说“我爱你”的人。这可能是因为女性更害怕伤心欲绝。

11.恋爱减少了一半的头痛频率

斯坦福大学医学院的研究人员发现，约有50％的头痛患者在服用喷鼻剂含催产素（一种爱激素）约4小时后，将疼痛减轻了一半（6）。另有27％的人表示在相同的时间后完全没有疼痛。

12.爱与笑合在一起

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13.长距离可以加强人际关系

人们经常说远距离的关系是行不通的，但是研究却相反。根据 《通讯杂志》上 发表的一项研究，长距离关系不仅与常规关系一样成功，而且在建立合作伙伴之间的信任方面也更好（8）。

14.建立关系可以以积极的方式塑造你的个性

悲观的人在生活中发现一点点爱之后，就会变得更好。发表在 《人格杂志》上的 一项研究观察了245对年轻夫妇约9个月（9）。科学家发现，由于与伴侣建立关系所带来的所有积极的经历和情感，恋爱关系中的神经伴侣变得更加自信和乐观。

15.爱可以缓解慢性疼痛

爱情不会很快取代现代医学。但是，如果您遇到严重的疼痛，它可能会派上用场。在斯坦福大学医学院进行的一项研究中，研究人员发现，爱所产生的温暖而模糊的感觉在大脑中与强效止痛药具有相同的反应（10）。

16.拥抱实际上对你有好处

有一个很好的理由，就是情侣们非常喜欢那些依sessions的会议。拥抱会触发催产素（幸福激素）的释放，从而改善您的心情并增加您的幸福感。这种现象众所周知，以至于催产素实际上被称为“爱荷尔蒙”或“拥抱激素”。

17.爱是化学上瘾的

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浪漫的爱情是一种非常强大的瘾。这是因为当您坠入爱河或坠入爱河时，大脑释放的激素是欣快的。实际上，您可能会变得很高，以至于您可能会沉迷于爱以及对所爱的人。

18.爱是人们结婚的首要原因

世界上超过60％的人口将结婚视为结婚的原因。其余人士指出，金融稳定也是一个重要因素。

19. The Heartbeats Of Couples Synchronize

When you and your partner gaze into each other’s eyes, what’s really happening is that your heart rates are syncing up. This has been stated by scientists at the University of California (11). The researchers have found that the couple’s heart rates were almost identical. This may be because of the strong link between couples on both physical and emotional levels.

20. Animals Commit To Monogamous Relationships As Well

Humans are not the only species in the animal kingdom that have monogamous relationships. Wolves, seahorses, beavers, otters, and barn owls are just a few of the other species that mate for life.

21. Hugging Your Partner Can Be An Instant Stress Reliever

Feeling extremely stressed? Hug it out with your lover. According to a study conducted by the University of North Carolina, psychiatrists found that when couples hugged, they had increased levels of oxytocin in their bodies (12). As mentioned before, oxytocin lowers stress levels and boosts mood. If you are having a rough day, doctors prescribe a long, tight hug!

22. Falling In Love Feels Like Being On Drugs

According to a study, that feeling of joy and euphoria you experience when you fall in love is essentially the same feeling that drug users experience (13). Both incidents trigger the release of hormones like adrenaline, dopamine, and oxytocin, giving you a real high.

23. It Can Only Take Up To 4 Minutes To Feel Attracted To Someone

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24. Both Guys And Girls Must Have Required Testosterone Levels For Sexual Attraction

Yes, even girls have small amounts of testosterone in their bodies. Testosterone is responsible for creating desire as well as aggressive behavior – which actually pushes the person to pursue the object of this desire.

25. Being In Love Has Neurological Effects Same As That Of Cocaine

Being in love is almost like taking a dose of cocaine. Both experiences affect the brain in a similar way and trigger a similar sensation. Researchers have found that being in love can result in the production of several euphoria-inducing chemicals, which stimulate 12 areas of the human brain at the same time (14).

26. Couples Who Are Very Similar To Each Other Are Not Likely To Last

As everyone knows, opposites attract. Research also proves that this is at least partially true. Partners who are too similar or too different don’t last very long. There must be similarities, but there also have to be differences so that the two of you can learn from one another.

27. Heartbreak Is Real

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There is evidence that severe traumatizing events, such as a divorce, death of a loved one, break-up, physical separation, cheating, or betrayal, can cause real physical pain in the area of the heart. This condition is known as Broken Heart Syndrome (15).

Intense emotional distress triggers the brain to release certain chemicals that weaken one’s heart, leading to shortness of breath and chest aches. The condition is so intense that it is often misdiagnosed as a heart attack. It affects women more often than men.

28. People Who Are In Love Have Chemical Reactions Similar To People With OCD

People in the early stages of love have lower levels of the hormone serotonin, which is directly associated with feelings of well-being and happiness. They also have higher levels of cortisol, which is associated with stress. This is very similar to those people who have OCD or Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.

This explains why we don’t behave like ourselves when we fall for someone. It works the other way as well – people who have lower levels of serotonin tend to fall in love and get involved in sexual relationships quicker than others.

29. Butterflies In The Stomach Are Real – They Are Caused By Adrenaline

When you fall in love with someone, you can feel the butterflies dancing, flying, and fooling around in your tummy every time you see your special someone. They are caused due to adrenaline, which is released in your body as a flight or fight response.

30. Dilated Pupils Show That You Are Attracted To Someone

Darwin has stated that pupils expand during heightened focus and attention. This is true indeed, as this mostly occurs when people gaze at a beloved one or an object of desire, even if it is only a video or a picture. Moreover, people who have dilated pupils look more attractive to others as well.

31. People Are Attracted To Those With A Different Immune System

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If this isn’t weird, we don’t know what is. This was observed during a study run by Claude Wedekind of the University of Switzerland. He had female test subjects smell worn T-shirts of men (16). They consistently preferred the smell of those men’s shirts whose immune systems were different than their own.

32. Some People Can’t Feel Love

Some people who claim never to have fallen in love or felt romantic love are affected by a condition called hypopituitarism, which is a rare disease that doesn’t allow people to feel the high of love.

33. Your Body Has A “Vein Of Love”

Why are engagement rings worn on the fourth finger of the left hand? That is because the ancient Greeks believed that that finger has the vena amoris, or the “vein of love,” that connects straight to the heart. So romantic!

爱与吸引力是复杂的事物，有时甚至很奇怪。可能很难通过早期的感受来导航，那么为什么不完全跳入并体验高潮呢？客观地看待您的爱情生活时，请注意您不喜欢的事物，制定计划以改变它们并向前迈进。您只有一次机会以自己的方式生活。您已经拥有在生活中获得完全幸福和爱所需要的一切，因此不要害怕。您只需要伸出手来抓住它。祝一切顺利！

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